In my darkest days, it all came down to one word: Safety. How badly I wish I could remember it all. I don’t. I remember generalities, I remember very specific anecdotes, mostly I remember the snippets of conversation where men in a safe environment told a highly personalized version of the exact same story.
It always began with safety. Safety leads to conversation, conversation leads to honesty, honesty leads to trust, trust leads to love.
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